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Physical Contact Between Husband and Wife on Yom Kippur
Halachic sources on physical contact between husband and wife on Yom Kippur: from Taz, Magen Avraham, and Agudah to modern practice and meaning.

Rabbi Rafi Ostroff
Sep 25


Is it Permissible to Have Marital Relations on Rosh Hashanah?
Is it permissible for a couple to have marital relations on Rosh Hashanah when it coincides with the wife’s leil tevilah? This responsum reviews classic sources—from the Magen Avraham, Mishnah Berurah, and Yaavetz—and explains why, in practice, the mitzvah of intimacy on the night of immersion overrides the custom of abstinence.

Rabbi Rafi Ostroff
Sep 25


Mikvah Night - Anonymous Question
"I prepare for this night after a long period of physical distance, but we often find specifically this night to be challenging..."

Rabbi Rafi Ostroff
Jul 3, 2023


Daytime Relations
The gemara in Niddah 17a reads: Rav Hisda says: One should not have intercourse during the day, as it is stated: “And you shall love your...

Rabbi Rafi Ostroff
Jul 3, 2023


Female Pleasure (For men & women)
Many men misunderstand the need for female masturbation. Some men feel female masturbation threatens their masculinity...

Rabbi Rafi Ostroff
Jun 18, 2023
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